I love being controlled during sex. Im a pretty easy going but i like my bedroom to be controlled by my partner. So whos a dominant and whos a submissive
I love to be dominated by male or female.I guess it all started when I was in the army and being ordered around by my superior's.When I met my wife,several years after leaving the army,I let her take 'charge' of things.Several years later we tried some light b.d.s.m to liven up our sex life and I ended up being the submissive and she the Mistress.Since she left me I have missed being a submissive.
I like to be equal, because it like you're working together to have fun. Instead of being submissive or dominant and making sex about yourself. You help the other person feel good. Then they have to help you feel good. Now your both working together to have good sex.
I'm definitely submissive, though mostly in my JO fantasies rather than real life. I can't really say why it's so erotic for me, but I started fantasizing about being a submissive naked slave-boy even before I was aware of sex.
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