Anybody (male and female) can tell me what woman wants from a man? I need the answer in general points of view not only sexual points of view. I like to find out my lacking from your honest answer. Please help me...
I would say unconditional acceptance and love. A true partner is your primary cheerleader and constantly wants you to be happy and find happiness in life. You need to put your partner's needs and feelings before your own to be a true friend and lover. Unfortunately, some people a not mature enough to satisfy another before they satisfy their own ego.
Thanks to all again helping me to solve my problem. Things are going to be ok slowly but I'm not worry about it. I believe everything will be alright one day and I'll be a happiest person with my wife.
There are no two women that are alike and there is no list of things that will satisfy every woman. We all want different things, sure, some basic stuff are the same, like love, sex, friendship, stability, affection, but that what every person wants, regardless of their gender.
Most of the time a woman would want someone to compliment her personality, and because there are billions of personalities out there, there is no way to tell, until you get to know the person. Often, women try to change the guy to be who they think he should be, but that kind of relationship is doomed, people never change. Sure, they can acquire new habits, buy new clothes, but in essence that person will remain the same, no matter what.
If you want to increase your chances in attracting a female, start working on yourself. Go to the gym, read books about relations and male/female dynamics, get a good job, buy a house, keep yourself well groomed and clean, and you will attract at least couple of females. And then, you just have to wait until the right one comes along, I guess.
If you want to know what I want from a man, it's pretty simple, yet very complex. I want someone to be happy with, it's not a checklist, it's an overall feeling of happiness when he is around.
When John Lennon was a ****, a teacher asked him, who he wanted to be when he grows up. He replied, that he wants to be happy, and the teacher told him that he didn't understand the question. John replied: "No, you just didn't understand life".
Well, that right there is a crock of shit. Fancy cars and stock portfolios.
Ever stop to think that maybe women would rather have someone who's loyal, and not an asshole to seek companionship with?
Here goes......intimacy (mental, social, spiritual etc) as well as physical. Trust (both ways), strong evidence of being cherished (in its real sense) and respected. Love, as they say, is a choice and not a feeling. Mind you, I have failed on all these and now live on my own looking at dicks and experimenting. Still, you did ask.
Dear sinanff47, it was happened at the beginning of our marriage. But for some reasons now she lose interest on me not only having sex with me also! I have thought a lot but haven't found any solution then I seek help from all of you. That's all.
I believe that for your problems you need professional help--counseling, etc.
You also posted today, in another of your topics here, that you have never seen a woman having an orgasm. So, then where were you "at the beginning of your marriage", when "it was happened"?
Mr. 'ilovesex'. No need for any apologies--everything is fine. I would think that in your country lots of men never were with a woman having an orgasm until marriage.
I would still advise you, together with your wife, to find out why she has lost interest in you and having sex with you. Best wishes.
First off just be you, don't try to be something you are not as that will only last so long before the real you comes through. There is someone out there for everyone, so in saying that you have to just find the person who likes you for being you and who you like for being who they are. Be caring, kind and pay attention to detail when with a woman. Be patient and don't try to impress with phoney stories and empty promises. Be someone they can trust,someone who can be tough and gentle. Not every woman is looking for the same person or trait. Oh don't be the over jealous, clingy type either.
She wants you to make her feel special. Like she is the most important woman on the planet. And give her security.
That's it. You do these two things and the woman in your life will love you forever and forgive any fuckups you make.
If you both feel secure and whole with yourselves and are not looking for someone to make you feel complete,then you are off to a good start,You can never make someone else complete.
I do believe that the female wants to believe she is the most important part of your life. You might feel she is but lack in proper showing of that feeling. I recently attended an open house where the home owner was displaying many possessions in his home. Another man asked him what his favorite item was in his house. Without hesitation he replied "MY WIFE" They have been happily married for many years. She was not present and she not hear his answer but it surely showed why they seemed very happy after so many years together.
No different to what we straight guys look for in a woman - as close to our personal ideas of a perfect woman as possible. Every man and every woman's opinion as to perfection differs slightly or greatly.
An all-rounder, would be my answer - that's what I like in a woman; but then again, there are plenty of men/women around that like a very specific type of man/woman and are willing to deal with the fact that they aren't that well-rounded.
a man who takes control who isn't controlling
a man who is sensitive and also tough
a bad boy who stops being a bad boy when they are in a relationship
career driven guy that puts family first
Most of the time a woman would want someone to compliment her personality, and because there are billions of personalities out there, there is no way to tell, until you get to know the person. Often, women try to change the guy to be who they think he should be, but that kind of relationship is doomed, people never change. Sure, they can acquire new habits, buy new clothes, but in essence that person will remain the same, no matter what.
If you want to increase your chances in attracting a female, start working on yourself. Go to the gym, read books about relations and male/female dynamics, get a good job, buy a house, keep yourself well groomed and clean, and you will attract at least couple of females. And then, you just have to wait until the right one comes along, I guess.
If you want to know what I want from a man, it's pretty simple, yet very complex. I want someone to be happy with, it's not a checklist, it's an overall feeling of happiness when he is around.
When John Lennon was a ****, a teacher asked him, who he wanted to be when he grows up. He replied, that he wants to be happy, and the teacher told him that he didn't understand the question. John replied: "No, you just didn't understand life".
Ever stop to think that maybe women would rather have someone who's loyal, and not an asshole to seek companionship with?
You also posted today, in another of your topics here, that you have never seen a woman having an orgasm. So, then where were you "at the beginning of your marriage", when "it was happened"?
I would still advise you, together with your wife, to find out why she has lost interest in you and having sex with you. Best wishes.
That's it. You do these two things and the woman in your life will love you forever and forgive any fuckups you make.
An all-rounder, would be my answer - that's what I like in a woman; but then again, there are plenty of men/women around that like a very specific type of man/woman and are willing to deal with the fact that they aren't that well-rounded.
a man who is sensitive and also tough
a bad boy who stops being a bad boy when they are in a relationship
career driven guy that puts family first
good luck
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