I’ll have both. I find a wank can give me a more powerful orgasm because I can control the pressure and wanking speed and I can edge and take my time. But nothing equals the whole body pleasure of having my wife nude under me with her legs wrapped over me as my cock pumps her vagina!

Since my wife no longer cares to fuck or anything else very much anymore I would have to say have a wank.

I'd rather fuck your wife