So I have been talking to a local lass for a few months now & we have met for drinks a couple of times.
Right from the start I said I can only offer friendship and sex & she was ok with that.
Love is one thing I do not have any spare to share & I always said she needed to keep looking for someone to love her as thats what she really needs.
But because of her kids were always around, we were never able to meet up (her kids work & go to collage).
I felt we had quite a friendship going, we messaged several times each day in-fact in the 3+ moths over 1600 messages on may subjects.
Then the next day I could have sworn I spotted her as a passenger . . & all of a sudden quiet . . . . a day or so later I sent her an "are you ok" I received "Oh I was on a date & he's still here" . . . quiet gain. then "we can't talk about sex any more BYE"
I am really upset she cut our friendship just like that, thinking about it, I think I had been used simply as a person to talk to & clearly she never felt there was any friendship toward me.
She could have told me she was going on a date, or was she, perhaps the kids were not the reason we never meet up, and perhaps she was with someone else all this time. . .
I shall never know I guess
Shit happens, but sometimes it hurts.